Marriage is a long time commitment
between man and God.
Despite today’s society where young marriages are failing.
It is important that your marriage is built on the foundation of God.
I’ve known both of you for a long time.
You are both workers in the house of God.
But taking a leap into marriage
is a long time commitment you should be ready for.
We are ready for marriage Pastor Naomi.
We will be having a lot of counseling sessions
Of not just what is expected of you
but what God expects in a marriage
To start off, I’ll like to ask some questions.
Have you fixed a date for your wedding?
Not yet.
But I have spoken with Pastor Ogunmola on fixing a date.
How long have you known each other?
I’ve known Tiwa since i joined the church which was about eight years ago.
But we started courting last year.
Tiwa.
I’ve known Remi for some time now.
How long have you been engaged?
Six months.
Almost a year...
Actually almost a year.
We’ve always known we were going to get married
since we started courting.
Are you born again Christians?
Of course we are.
Why do you intend to get married?
The Lord revealed to me that Tiwa is my wife.
She is a beautiful young woman who walks in the ways of the Lord.
Tiwa.
Remi is a good man
Have you been in any past relationships?
Have you been married before?
I’ve had a few relationships but they never led to engagements.
However, Tiwa here has never been in any relationship.
Is that so?
I told you.
What do you see as your role in a marriage?
I see myself as the head of the home
A father.
A provider.
I lead and my wife follows.
Tiwa.
I’ll be the wife.
I’ll take care of the home.
Work, contribute to our finances.
There’s no need for that.
I’ll provide for us.
What are your expectations from each other?
Tiwa will take care of our home and the women affairs in the church.
When we have children, she’ll be a mother.
She’ll also be my helper.
As the Lord intended,
submissive to me in all ways as the apostle
Paul admonishes wives to be.
Tiwa.
Remi will be my husband.
Protector and provider.
Yea, that.
How many children do you plan on having?
Two.
Five.
Two? We’ll have a large family like mine.
Don’t worry, they’ll be a lot of conflict in the marriage.
How do you intend to resolve that?
As the head of the home it is my duty to
ensure that my wife follows my instructions
because I know what’s best for us.
And I will always do my best to do right by her.
She is a godly woman, I’m a godly man.
It is going to be a godly home.
Hello?
Hey.
This is Andre. We met at the bar the other night.
You let me buy you a drink.
Oh I remember you.
I don’t remember giving you my number though.
You didn’t.
But I’m a business man and I’m not above bribes so I...
So you bribed someone for my number.
Such a criminal.
Just say the word and I’ll commit any crime for you.
Does those lines really work for you?
Never with you. And that’s why I like you.
You like my body though.
Of course I like your body.
I want your body next to me in my bed.
I mean, do you see you?
But, here is the thing,
I also like your smart mouth.
You are very blunt. Is this your idea of wooing?
I’m always blunt baby. I figured you’ll appreciate it.
See I don’t have time for boys and their drama.
Good, cause I’m no boy and I am definitely drama free.
I just really like you, that’s it.
But you don’t know me.
Exactly. Lets fix it.
Go on a date with me.
What.
Listen, I like you. I want to know you better.
So think about it.
Let me know.
Okay.
Say where and when. I’ll be waiting.
Have a lovely day.
Have a lovely day too.
Bye.
Why are you laughing? What's up
Babe.
What happened?
You need to see the guy I am going on a date with tomorrow.
Halima, which guy?
I met him on Instagram.
I think he is a scammer.
Instagram? Halima.
You know all this Instagram boys aren’t always what they seem.
See him?
Show me. Let me see his picture.
Be careful though.
Open his Instagram page.
Forget the page.
Let me see the picture.
Trust me. I am looking for money, not love.
I have heard.
Do your thing.
Enjoy your date.
Sorry.
Sorry?
Oh my God,
so what the fuck were we doing since?
Sorry?
Mide that’s not fair. I never lied to you.
Mide you are my best friend.
Wait, excuse you.
I’m trying to make sense from what you are saying right now
and it’s not making any sense. I’m trying really hard.
We were never in a relationship.
So we were kissing, having sex,
doing things that people do in relationships.
Did it not occur to you at some point to just whisper it and say I’m engaged.
What the fuck? I was just a fool.
Mide, I’m really sorry and I get it,
you are mad but I never lied to you.
We were friends who had sex.
Oh really?
Mide, I didn’t lie about us.
I know I have done a lot of things,
but I never lied about what this was.
I’m sorry.
Hi.
Do you want a drink?
We are not opened yet but I can get Saint to make you something.
I came to apologize. I am so sorry for losing my temper.
I was just so angry that you were keeping a lot of stuff from me.
And I said things I should never have said.
I am sorry.
Kelechi we fight all the time.
It is exhausting. It is unhealthy.
But babe, that’s what couples do.
It’s part of the process.
I don’t like this process. I don’t like it at all.
I think we need a clean break.
I don’t want to do this anymore.
Let’s just move on.
Are you seeing someone?
Not really.
What do you mean not really?
It’s a simple yes or no question.
Are you seeing someone?
I slept with someone.
It was a distraction.
Kelechi. It doesn’t mean anything.
I needed the distraction.
We were broken up.
Were did you meet him? Was it here?
Is he some rich kid you met here?
Was it about the money?
How much did he pay you
for you to spread your legs so quick?
My God you are such a gold digger.
We are all gold diggers Kelechi.
You, me, everyone we know.
We are social climbers.
Why do we work so hard to leave our wretched lives?
To move high. To be somebody.
Calling me out, makes you a hypocrite.
Saint abeg, my usual.
Nonsense.
Hey.
The seat is for someone.
It’s me baby, wellingtonpro.
I can’t make up and dress like this, skip work just for this.
Baby.
Jesus.
Baby, where are you going to?
Look at this.
I’m seeing my darling. I'm seeing.
Are you having a good time?
Of course I am.
Do you know what you should do?
What?
Here’s some money. Go spray.
Spend it how you like.
I’m sure Wole won’t mind.
Did you have a good time?
Of course I did.
I’m so glad you made us come here.
This is so much fun.
Who is that?
Are you mad?
Do you want to kill me.?
If you try that again. If you try it again.
Look at me. Do I look normal?
If you try it again, I will kill you.
Stupid girl.
So you want to fight?
Come close.
You are lucky I am wearing heels.
Come close. If you know they gave birth to you well, come.
Goat.
Come and fight. I am ready for you now.
I’m ready to fight.
Where are you?
Where is she? Come and fight me.
Hello.
My fiance and I would like a lap dance please.
Oh no. Lola, She doesn’t give lap dances.
She is the princess of all strippers.
Aren’t you?
That’s such a bummer.
Please. It’s my first time here.
Okay. Ladies should always get what they want.
This babe is a lesbian.
Leave me alone.
What? Excuse me! Leave me!
So after all your useless forming,
you are nothing but a petty thief.
Are you okay?
Kobe.
This bitch stole my fucking bracelet.
I didn’t steal anything.
Are you fucking kidding me.
I didn’t steal anything. It’s a gift.
You can see it.
Be calm. Be calm.
I didn’t steal anything.
Calm down.
I told you she was a thief.
Bro.
Calm down.
I am not a thief.
Calm down.
Then how the fuck did you get my bracelet?
Bro.